While kids may say that the hottest trend is a playstation4, an x-box, or an iPod, there is one gift parents can give their children that is not just a fad and will stand the test of time. The answer, of course, is a happy stable home environment.
Children who are exposed to conflict are more likely to experience physical and emotional struggles. The best opportunity parents can provide for their children is safety, security, and consistency. However, if you are in the middle of a troubled marriage these protective factors are at risk.
Dr. John Gottman is a renowned researcher and marital therapist for over 20 years, and through his research he has been able to predict divorce with 87.4% accuracy. How?… “The Four Horseman of the Apocalypse”:
So, what does all of this mean? Every relationship will have a run in with the 4 horsemen at some point. However, the horsemen become problematic when they have a consistent and ongoing presence in your relationship. If the 4 horsemen have moved in and taken over your relationship, you may want to consider seeking support. When your relationship is struggling your children are likely experiencing turmoil as well. Why? Most of what kids learn is from what they see in the home environment. This does not mean that if your relationship is in despair your children are “ruined for life”. However, it is an important factor to consider when thinking about the emotional well being of your child. Children thrive when they experience a healthy, safe, and happy home.
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